it’s worth carrying on the fight because there might be something better ahead, rather than sinking back into the abyss and feeling like it doesn’t matter whether you live or die. And that’s the hardest damn thing of all, but hey, you gotta keep trying
Mungkin kita tidak punya banyak waktu untuk memahami semua yang terjadi, terkadang kita hanya butuh duduk dan menertawakan apa - apa yang telah terjadi, mengikhlaskan apa - apa yang telah kita lewati, dan mensyukuri apa - apa yang telah kita raih sejauh ini.
- Asta Gharino
- Asta Gharino
“The truth is social media makes us impatient. We’re rushing to get what someone else has. We want to be that person we see on our timeline, to live someone else’s life. Don’t let this happen. Learn to be content with what you have. Learn to appreciate the person that you are”
"Ada yang begitu dekat namun bukan untuk dimiliki, hanya untuk disyukuri keberadaannya, dan dicintai dalam diam."
— Ikhlas Paling Serius
— Ikhlas Paling Serius
The truth is — we have no control over other people and situations. We only have control over ourselves. And sometimes that can be very limiting when it comes to what we actually want.
Learn to live with the fact that people don’t view the world with the same eyes as you. And understand that they have priorities, tooThe recipe for finding success in love.
High standards + low expectations = peace of mind.
It’s hard to not have expectations, especially when you first meet someone for the first time. But we have to remember that every relationship is different. And we can’t expect everyone to behave the same as other people we know or have similar needs as us.
It’s true that we all dream big. And while it’s healthy to be aware of what we desire in life, we shouldn’t assume that things will always turn out exactly the way we planned it.
High standards + low expectations = peace of mind.
It’s hard to not have expectations, especially when you first meet someone for the first time. But we have to remember that every relationship is different. And we can’t expect everyone to behave the same as other people we know or have similar needs as us.
It’s true that we all dream big. And while it’s healthy to be aware of what we desire in life, we shouldn’t assume that things will always turn out exactly the way we planned it.
People can’t always read your mind.
Setting up expectations and thinking that people can meet them is a sure way to let yourself down.
It might seem that having low expectations is the last thing you want in a relationship, but they actually often get in the way.
Of course, we should all have standards. We should know what we want in a friend or partner. And we should never tolerate abuse or mistreatment.
But we should never believe that something should happen just because we want it to.
Setting up expectations and thinking that people can meet them is a sure way to let yourself down.
It might seem that having low expectations is the last thing you want in a relationship, but they actually often get in the way.
Of course, we should all have standards. We should know what we want in a friend or partner. And we should never tolerate abuse or mistreatment.
But we should never believe that something should happen just because we want it to.
The key is to start living in the moment.
You’ve probably heard this advice a million times before, but there’s a reason why it’s been re-hashed over and over again.
When we don’t focus on expectations, we live in the moment. And when we are in the moment, we have a better understanding of knowing what’s right for us.
You’ve probably heard this advice a million times before, but there’s a reason why it’s been re-hashed over and over again.
When we don’t focus on expectations, we live in the moment. And when we are in the moment, we have a better understanding of knowing what’s right for us.
What a beautiful thing it is to be able to stand tall and say, ‘I fell apart, and I survived.’
go easy on yourself. really - don’t make life harder for you in this moment. when life is challenging, when it’s painful, you don’t have to be strong, you have to be gentle. please make this your priority.
renuka
renuka
It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.