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今天和朋友聊天的一个点是,现在不太能和同龄或者比我小的女生交朋友了。

因为大部分这个年纪的女孩,还是沉浸在浪漫爱的幻想里,对约会、搞男人、亲密关系颇有兴趣。见面会 update 感情现状,然后像是酒醉人不醉地抬起头,问那你最近呢?

我最近呢,我只对自己人生和现在手头做的事情感兴趣,我真的对男人完全不感兴趣。you know what 我对你那个傻叼前任不感兴趣,对你最近是不是心动了哪个蠢货也不感兴趣,我连骂男人都骂不动了,爱咋咋地,关我屁事。真正的「不爱」不是唾骂,而是无视。异性恋天下无新鲜事,男的都一样烂,女的都一样超爱,我绝望了,说真的。

我想到以前谈过的恋爱,都会觉得很糟糕,很不幸,很浪费时间。对,我甚至只能用「不幸」来形容这个境遇。不是在骂哪个具体的人,而是我在这样的父权结构下谈异性恋,居然完全不知道自己想要什么就一头扎进去,搞什么爱河,纵身一跃,神经吗?我说的要知道自己想要什么,而不是虚头巴脑的荷尔蒙、激素和爱什么的。

总之太廉价了,为过去在男人身上花的时间感到不幸。也不想再多花时间在「性缘」上,讲述也好,倾听也罢。



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今天和朋友聊天的一个点是,现在不太能和同龄或者比我小的女生交朋友了。

因为大部分这个年纪的女孩,还是沉浸在浪漫爱的幻想里,对约会、搞男人、亲密关系颇有兴趣。见面会 update 感情现状,然后像是酒醉人不醉地抬起头,问那你最近呢?

我最近呢,我只对自己人生和现在手头做的事情感兴趣,我真的对男人完全不感兴趣。you know what 我对你那个傻叼前任不感兴趣,对你最近是不是心动了哪个蠢货也不感兴趣,我连骂男人都骂不动了,爱咋咋地,关我屁事。真正的「不爱」不是唾骂,而是无视。异性恋天下无新鲜事,男的都一样烂,女的都一样超爱,我绝望了,说真的。

我想到以前谈过的恋爱,都会觉得很糟糕,很不幸,很浪费时间。对,我甚至只能用「不幸」来形容这个境遇。不是在骂哪个具体的人,而是我在这样的父权结构下谈异性恋,居然完全不知道自己想要什么就一头扎进去,搞什么爱河,纵身一跃,神经吗?我说的要知道自己想要什么,而不是虚头巴脑的荷尔蒙、激素和爱什么的。

总之太廉价了,为过去在男人身上花的时间感到不幸。也不想再多花时间在「性缘」上,讲述也好,倾听也罢。

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