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【随便聊聊:为什么我会特意去夸奖我儿子的穿着】

我37岁,男。我儿子7岁,我女儿4岁。我两个孩子平时穿的衣服都是TA们自己选择的。当然我会根据天气情况做一些限制,比如天气很冷的时候不能穿很短的裤子。

渐渐地,我发现我女儿会挑很多好看的衣服,我带她去店里也会买回来很多她喜欢的衣服:可爱的连衣裙、有褶边的衣服、色彩搭配很好看的衣裤。她的选择很多样。但是我儿子却相反,他的衣柜很单一,全是差不多的裤子和短裤,衬衫也都差不多。

我想了很久,才发现这可能是因为我常常会夸奖我女儿的穿着,但我儿子穿什么我相对来说就没有那么关心。而我儿子也发现了我的区别对待。回想起来,我小时候也是从来没有人夸我穿得好看,以至于我一直对自己的穿衣品味很没有信心,甚至长大之后有人夸我衣品的时候,我都会下意识认定人家的夸奖并不是出于真心。

于是我开始尝试夸奖我儿子的衣品。当他有一次挑选了一件《美国队长》主题的衬衫,搭配一条棕色短裤的时候,我告诉我儿子,说他真有眼光。我儿子高兴极了。我也终于意识到我儿子其实非常期待自己的爸爸可以认可自己的衣品。

现在,我儿子每天换好衣服都会给我看。可以和他一起讨论穿衣搭配真的非常开心。但对我来说最开心的事情不是我喜欢我儿子穿着,而是我儿子喜欢他自己的穿着。我也是这么和我儿子说的。 source



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【随便聊聊:为什么我会特意去夸奖我儿子的穿着】

我37岁,男。我儿子7岁,我女儿4岁。我两个孩子平时穿的衣服都是TA们自己选择的。当然我会根据天气情况做一些限制,比如天气很冷的时候不能穿很短的裤子。

渐渐地,我发现我女儿会挑很多好看的衣服,我带她去店里也会买回来很多她喜欢的衣服:可爱的连衣裙、有褶边的衣服、色彩搭配很好看的衣裤。她的选择很多样。但是我儿子却相反,他的衣柜很单一,全是差不多的裤子和短裤,衬衫也都差不多。

我想了很久,才发现这可能是因为我常常会夸奖我女儿的穿着,但我儿子穿什么我相对来说就没有那么关心。而我儿子也发现了我的区别对待。回想起来,我小时候也是从来没有人夸我穿得好看,以至于我一直对自己的穿衣品味很没有信心,甚至长大之后有人夸我衣品的时候,我都会下意识认定人家的夸奖并不是出于真心。

于是我开始尝试夸奖我儿子的衣品。当他有一次挑选了一件《美国队长》主题的衬衫,搭配一条棕色短裤的时候,我告诉我儿子,说他真有眼光。我儿子高兴极了。我也终于意识到我儿子其实非常期待自己的爸爸可以认可自己的衣品。

现在,我儿子每天换好衣服都会给我看。可以和他一起讨论穿衣搭配真的非常开心。但对我来说最开心的事情不是我喜欢我儿子穿着,而是我儿子喜欢他自己的穿着。我也是这么和我儿子说的。 source

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